10.15.2009
Why Does She Stay.???
i never really understood why women stay in realtionships when they know they are loving the other person more than they are being loved ... but in return i never understood why men continued to entertain the idea of beingin a realtionship with someone they know they really dont want to be with... its like why keep them on the side when you could just move on.??? but i guess thats easy to do when she has decided to be helpless ... and has made it apparent that she cant move on and doesnt want to move on ... idk recently ive seen more and more girls get in realtionships that are good in the begining and take a turn somewhere near bad and have fallen off the cliff past worse and theyre continuing to HOLD ON to when they were driving down a street called nice ... knowing that they can no longer make a U-turn ... now i cant sit here and act like i dont understand because i was that girl once ... taking frequent strolls down memory lane and thinking about the way things USED TO be ... attempting to get him to be the person i fell in love with oh so long ago ... but people grow and change ... whether it be for the good or bad, the change and dont stay the same ... so to my ladies that have found themselves in this situation when is enough enough.?? when do you decide that you love yourself more.?? when are you going to stop holding on to the USED TO BE'S and allow yourself to move on and that person to do them ... even if its bad for them.??
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ughhh, i know exactly what your are talking about. Girls just gotta take that blind fold from their face and realized that you CAN'T keep running back to the past and just focus on the future.
ReplyDeletei have the problem of trying to see the best in people. even if i see at the VERY beginning that they have some issues i still see them for the potential that i know they have, even if they dont see it. so i stay because i know that i wouldnt want someone to give up on me, so i dont want to give up on them. but i'm slowly starting to realize that if they want to fill their potential then they will on their time. nothing i do can speed up the process, its just up to me how long i stay and wait for that to happen.
ReplyDeletei think alot of girls do the same thing, thinking that their dudes will fulfill the potential that the girl sees. but unfortunately they dont, at least while we're around. & its not fair for us to stay.