Stuck.!!

Dear Schae.love

I have a question. I'm 17 and currently a Junior in High School of course. I have been with my boyfriend since we were freshman, and we both know we love each other. Lately, I think we might be finding interest in other people. I know he won't cheat on me and I wouldn't on him, but I am wondering if I'm missing out on the rest of what High School has to offer. I know I wouldn't mind marring him, but I'm thinking it my be because I don't know any different.

Love,
Stuck

Dear Stuck,
It sounds to me like you have a case of the comfortables.!! You gotten so used to the routine of being in a relationship with someone that you dont know anything else. Now Im not saying you should break up with this person just because youre a little curious if youre happy STAY HAPPPY.!!!! But if you know within the next year you two will be graduating and going to different schools in different parts of the country then maybe you should end that relationship ON GOOD TERMS.!!! And try something new in a new place, and if it doesnt work out then you may still have the opportunity to go back to your high school sweetheart...

i hope that helps.!!

Love,
Schae.love

Under Pressure

Undecided

Dear Schae.love

im a 2009 graduate, and i have decided to not go to school right away. My parents thinks its a bad idea and are forcing me to go to school or find a job by august, and pay rent. i want to go to school eventually but i just don't know what i want to do when i get there. What should i tell my parents so that they will understand.?

Love
Undecided

Dear Undecided,
WOW.!! Its amazing how much you sound like me when I graduated high school.!! To answer your question reguarding what you should do about school, I suggest just taking a few classes part time at a community collge for you first semester and include a few electives so you can find something that you like. Hey.! You never know you might find something you like and want to go to school full time the following semester.! In the meantim just explain to your parents that you aren't blowing school off completely and suggest taking a few classes partime first and going from there. That way everyone is happy, youre in school like they requested and you dont have to try and fight to find a job.
I hope this helps.!!

Love,
Schae.love

New Housewife

Schae.Love.

I just recently moved into my own apartment with my bf of 4 years.
Now I normally dont cook at my house my family always eats out and rarely cooks
at home. How many times a week should I be cooking for my man?

Love,
a new house wife

Dear A New House Wife,
Since there are only 7 days in a week i suggest only cooking 4 or 5 of those days and allowing fo left over so on fridays you can eat those and on the weekends you can still go out and enjoy a dinner that you didnt have to cook. That way youre saving a lot of money and even more time.

Sincerly,
Schae.love

Bestfriends &. Boyfriends