Clean House, Clean Body, Clean Mind

I strongly believe whatever is going on on the inside will reflect on the outside .. For example if you’re an emotional wreck or depressed usually your personal space is a mess too. Or if you’re the kind of person that like to make people think everything is okay and then go home and cry at night, your room may not be a mess but your closet probably is!

I was one of those people and today I decided I couldn’t take it anymore so I took everything out folded the things I wanted to keep and got rid of the rest. All of which was donated to The Shade Tree Shelter for women and children.
It felt REALLY great to not only donate my clothes but to get rid all of the visible mess. It made it a lot easier to clean out the mental junk too. Needless to say taking a large problem and making it a smaller task

aloud me to see the bigger picture, relieve some stress, and give myself a clear head. Which in turn makes me a happier person.So now Im asking you guys to do the same … feeling stressed, depressed, or at the end of your rope.? Try cleaning out your closet ..


It will make a difference.!! Find your nearest shelter and just drop the stuff off.!! They do the rest…

Dating Do's &. Dont's

DATING DO'S &. DONT'S

DO

talk about what you're looking for
talk about life goals, work, etc.
dress to impress
share youre career; especially if your passionate about it
relax have fun
let your personality show

DON'T

stare at her breasts
force a kiss at the end of the night
tell him/her your full name; they may stalk you
get drunk
share your salary; it can be intimidating to some people
go to the club or the movies; its a TERRIBLE place to talk and get to know each other

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Why Does She Stay.???

i never really understood why women stay in realtionships when they know they are loving the other person more than they are being loved ... but in return i never understood why men continued to entertain the idea of beingin a realtionship with someone they know they really dont want to be with... its like why keep them on the side when you could just move on.??? but i guess thats easy to do when she has decided to be helpless ... and has made it apparent that she cant move on and doesnt want to move on ... idk recently ive seen more and more girls get in realtionships that are good in the begining and take a turn somewhere near bad and have fallen off the cliff past worse and theyre continuing to HOLD ON to when they were driving down a street called nice ... knowing that they can no longer make a U-turn ... now i cant sit here and act like i dont understand because i was that girl once ... taking frequent strolls down memory lane and thinking about the way things USED TO be ... attempting to get him to be the person i fell in love with oh so long ago ... but people grow and change ... whether it be for the good or bad, the change and dont stay the same ... so to my ladies that have found themselves in this situation when is enough enough.?? when do you decide that you love yourself more.?? when are you going to stop holding on to the USED TO BE'S and allow yourself to move on and that person to do them ... even if its bad for them.??

Single &. Loving It

DONT CLIMB DOWN.!!

**warning the following entry may not be suitable for children 16 and under**

So I was sitting in the car with one of my guy friends and he made a very valid point as we were talking about relationships … he said that guys put girls in categories … FRIEND, FUCK BUDDY &. GIRLFRIEND … along with a few others but those were the 3 that stuck out to me the most … two days prior to this my mother told me something that I don’t think I will EVER forget … she said “men place women on a pedestal its our choice if we’re going to stay up there or if we’re going to climb down” … that of course got me thinking … =) if we’re already placed on a high pedestal with the potential of being a girlfriend WHY would we take the option of climbing down &. messing that up.?? And I came to the simple conclusion that we don’t know how to sit back shut up and take a compliment … we are also under the impression that if we don’t give it up right away that they wont like us … NEWS FLASH if you give it up right away you’ve just taken about 12 steps down that pedestal and have gone from a potential “girlfriend” to a definite “fuck buddy” in the matter of one night … so if you feel like he’s pressuring you to “get it in” its NOT pressure it’s a test &. if you give it up and give into the pressure you my dear have just FAILED.!! So the next time you find yourself in a situation where you’re feelin like you’re stuck between a rock and a hard place hear my voice when I say “DON’T DO IT.!!” I promise it will save you in the long run … and if he decides he wants that girl that SUPER easy &. gives it up on the first night then LET HIM.!! He wouldn’t have appreciated you in the first place.!!!

LEAVE ME ALONE.!!

Lost in Love

Dear Schae.love,

I love my boyfriend...so much. He treats me with respect, he takes care of me, he listens to me, he just loves me, and that’s all I’ve ever wanted in a boyfriend. But for some reason, my mom hates the fact that i am with him. She feels that he just isn’t the right fit for me. I know its because she doesn’t know him like i do...i try to explain to her why i love him so much but she just doesn’t get it. I’ve made up my mind that no matter how she feels, he's the one for me. But i just wish she could understand. What more can i do to open her eyes?

Sincerely,

Lost in love


　
Dear Lost in Love,

When it comes to parents and boyfriends it can be VERY difficult, especially moms. I know it may seem like she hates him and doesn’t want you to be with him. Trust me when I say its not him she doesn’t like you could date the Pope and she would hate that too.! But its all because she loves you and doesn’t want to see her little girl get hurt. And she just has your best interest at heart. I know it may be a little difficult to see it that way and you just feel like she hates your boyfriend, but look at it like this: if you and him have a fight who is the first person you’re going to run to.?? Your mom of course.! And the last thing she wants to see is her baby girl hurt by someone else. So don’t feel like she hates him because that’s not the case, she just loves you and doesn’t want anyone to hurt your feelings. =)

Love,

Schae.love

She's Just Not That Into You...

I know most of the time I have girls asking me for advice about guys, and how do I know if he likes me, and things like that. But what people (especially my guys) fail to realize is that just like the guys us ladies send mixed signals and leave the guys confused too so I’ve decided with the help of a few friends to do a few “She’s Just Not That Into You” tips for the guys , so you know what’s going on….

She’s Just Not That Into You if….

10. She acts like she doesn’t know you in public.
9. She gives you a fake name and number.
8. She doesn’t text you back after a 12 hour period.
7. She doesn’t get excited when you tell her you’re going to be home alone tonight.
6. Her friends know about you as JUST A FRIEND, and she reminds you and them EVERY chance she gets.
5. She talks to you about her guy problems and the guy isn’t you.
4. She only hangs out with you every blue moon when she’s bored-always on her time-never on yours.
3. She frequently reminds you that she enjoys being single.
2. She never invites you to do ANYTHING.!
1. Every time you try to have sex she’s on her cycle, has a headache, is sick, or has work in the morning.!!

And last but not least….

She starts a sentence with “You know you’re one of my best guy friends but….”

This is usually followed with things like:

You know I don’t see you like that right.?
　

Boy Craze

Crossroads

Hopeless

Stuck.!!

Dear Schae.love

I have a question. I'm 17 and currently a Junior in High School of course. I have been with my boyfriend since we were freshman, and we both know we love each other. Lately, I think we might be finding interest in other people. I know he won't cheat on me and I wouldn't on him, but I am wondering if I'm missing out on the rest of what High School has to offer. I know I wouldn't mind marring him, but I'm thinking it my be because I don't know any different.

Love,
Stuck

Dear Stuck,
It sounds to me like you have a case of the comfortables.!! You gotten so used to the routine of being in a relationship with someone that you dont know anything else. Now Im not saying you should break up with this person just because youre a little curious if youre happy STAY HAPPPY.!!!! But if you know within the next year you two will be graduating and going to different schools in different parts of the country then maybe you should end that relationship ON GOOD TERMS.!!! And try something new in a new place, and if it doesnt work out then you may still have the opportunity to go back to your high school sweetheart...

i hope that helps.!!

Love,
Schae.love

Under Pressure

Undecided

Dear Schae.love

im a 2009 graduate, and i have decided to not go to school right away. My parents thinks its a bad idea and are forcing me to go to school or find a job by august, and pay rent. i want to go to school eventually but i just don't know what i want to do when i get there. What should i tell my parents so that they will understand.?

Love
Undecided

Dear Undecided,
WOW.!! Its amazing how much you sound like me when I graduated high school.!! To answer your question reguarding what you should do about school, I suggest just taking a few classes part time at a community collge for you first semester and include a few electives so you can find something that you like. Hey.! You never know you might find something you like and want to go to school full time the following semester.! In the meantim just explain to your parents that you aren't blowing school off completely and suggest taking a few classes partime first and going from there. That way everyone is happy, youre in school like they requested and you dont have to try and fight to find a job.
I hope this helps.!!

Love,
Schae.love

New Housewife

Schae.Love.

I just recently moved into my own apartment with my bf of 4 years.
Now I normally dont cook at my house my family always eats out and rarely cooks
at home. How many times a week should I be cooking for my man?

Love,
a new house wife

Dear A New House Wife,
Since there are only 7 days in a week i suggest only cooking 4 or 5 of those days and allowing fo left over so on fridays you can eat those and on the weekends you can still go out and enjoy a dinner that you didnt have to cook. That way youre saving a lot of money and even more time.

Sincerly,
Schae.love

Bestfriends &. Boyfriends