Lost in Love

Dear Schae.love,

I love my boyfriend...so much. He treats me with respect, he takes care of me, he listens to me, he just loves me, and that’s all I’ve ever wanted in a boyfriend. But for some reason, my mom hates the fact that i am with him. She feels that he just isn’t the right fit for me. I know its because she doesn’t know him like i do...i try to explain to her why i love him so much but she just doesn’t get it. I’ve made up my mind that no matter how she feels, he's the one for me. But i just wish she could understand. What more can i do to open her eyes?

Sincerely,

Lost in love


　
Dear Lost in Love,

When it comes to parents and boyfriends it can be VERY difficult, especially moms. I know it may seem like she hates him and doesn’t want you to be with him. Trust me when I say its not him she doesn’t like you could date the Pope and she would hate that too.! But its all because she loves you and doesn’t want to see her little girl get hurt. And she just has your best interest at heart. I know it may be a little difficult to see it that way and you just feel like she hates your boyfriend, but look at it like this: if you and him have a fight who is the first person you’re going to run to.?? Your mom of course.! And the last thing she wants to see is her baby girl hurt by someone else. So don’t feel like she hates him because that’s not the case, she just loves you and doesn’t want anyone to hurt your feelings. =)

Love,

Schae.love